Tonight, I was in the bathroom at this time , someone banged on the front door (I could also use the word knocked, but I think the word banged fits better)
I turned off the shower and listened.
As I heard Sam´s voice I turned the shower on because I was just since two minutes in the bath .
I hoped that Sam would stay in the living room but how should it be ???
He banged on the bathroom door.
I said that I will come out in 10 minutes but it seemed that it was very important for him to speak with me now and not in ten minutes.
And now I know why: he was afraid that he would lose touch with Roof in 15 years or so because he read something about that stuff in the I-net.
And the ironic was, that I missunderstood him and the end of the row was, that I wanted to forbid him the contact with Roof .
But after that, he explained me and my mum everything and asked how over 80% of the fathers could loses the touch with their kids.
And mum explained that the lost of touch depends on rows like this ones we had.
But I don´t think that he would lose the touch with Roof because he loves him and he loves me ( not as much as a boyfriend would love me but in his special way, he also loves me) and he doesn´t want to be like his own dad.